ok so probably 5 or 6 months ago i asked this girl to be my girl (keep in mind we went on like 3 dates) and she said no, a nice way of saying no, but i guess she was seein some other dude (i didnt know at the time) so anyway i had a good mutual friend. he told me she was feelin' really bad about rejecting me, but i was like yeeahh ok w/e so i quit talking to her. now i have been wanting to know how she's doin and stuff, but idk wth to text her? or if i should even text her? i still think she's cute and everything but if i text her, what should i say? and if i shouldn't, why not??