...makes up lies about you? My sis.-in-law loves to make up lies about me and tell them to my brother so that he'll view me in a lower light. She's always been jealous of the tight bond my brother and I have had since childhood. I do nothing to come in between them. I only talk to my brother once/month and see him only 2x/year, so it's CRAZY that she wants to come between us. But, she does! And, it's horrible that she manipulates him into believing her lies. So, unknowingly he's really being an enabler by listening to her!

How can I be the "bigger person" in this? I didn't do anything wrong so I don't want to play into her drama and accusations.