My long distance crush is flying here to meet me in soon. He has lately been getting romantic a little in his emails and it's sweet, but I noticed that I'm gving him less romantic responses and feel kind of bad, like I should be more flirty,
but I'm worried that if I get too into this now, that it will build up the meeting to be huge, and I have done this before, with so many expectations and fantasy, it can ruin the real experience.
I feel like I want to be more friendly and save the flirting for when i know that I really like him in person, but don't want to discourage him or make him think I don't like him a lot
because I DO!
How should I flirt without it being too over the top?