so i've been in a 2 year long emotionally/physically/sexually abusive relationship before..which trained me pretty well on how to keep myself away from people...i broke up with that guy in november of 2010..and met this wonderful guy in september 2011..
he is so great and what not..we started dating in october 2011..but then i pushed him away..then we gave it another shot around nov. december..to make things work..but i felt such an urge to just run away.. theres nothing that i don't like about this guy..he is great..super understanding..super caring..very respectful..yet i keep pushing him away..
we are friends now with our boundaries..yet at times i feel the huge need to push him far far away frommy life..he hasn't done anything wrong to me ever..
i really wanna be with him without having to push him away..

any tips on how to deal with intimacy issues?