Good relationship... bad sex...?

**Catherine** · 06-13-2009, 01:38 PM

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have a good relationship we never fight and we r like best firends who tel eachother everything. The only problem is i don't have a good time in the bed room.. i can't wait until it's over.. altho he seems to always want it.. Can i really be with someone forever if i can't enjoy the sex? I can trust him 100% so i just don't know if i can throw away r relationship over this but it can't be a good sign can it? Maybe we where only just meant to be friends and nothing more?

**Claire** · 06-13-2009, 01:49 PM

A relationship isn't just about sex. If you two love and trust each other, then it isn't important. If you don't like it, you should talk to him about it. You two can be together unless sex is all you two want.

**Darpan** · 06-13-2009, 01:50 PM

FIRST OF ALL......YOU'VE EARNED MY RESPECT FOR BEING LOYAL TO UR GUY FOR SEVEN YEARS. CHEERS !

AS FAR IS THE BED PLEASURE IS CONCERNED....IT CAN SURELY CREATE A RIFT. IF YOU CUM (AS IN THE CUM OF SEX) EARLIER THAN HIM......THEN YOU CAN SURELY LOOK FORWARD FOR A SECOND ORGASM.

TRY NEW THINGS...BE INTIMATE EVEN WITHOUT SEX.

BE TOGETHER ALWAYS..!

BEST OF LUCK !

06-13-2009, 01:51 PM

Wow! 7 years.. ^^ great job!

have you ever tried different positions.?
or you could also try oral, of course he has to be the one doing all the work.
or suggest longer foreplay.
or maybe u just need a lil thrill to achieve the big O. y not try public places (be careful though.)

I think you 2 are meant for each other bcoz for 7 years of staying together?? WOW! u did great!
Maybe u guys just need a lil experimenting.