Is it wrong to have sex with straight guys on the premise a girl would be involved?

**newwave84** · 07-20-2009, 10:43 PM

So I seem to have caught myself in a slight moral dilemma. I recently have been communicating with these two young straight guys who are best-friends with eachother and have the sex drive of a jack-rabbit. They have been sending me explicit sexual text messgaes about what they would do with me if my girlfriend would join in. The thing is, I dont have a girlfriend. Never have. I am gay and love the sausage. I lied to these boys (just for fun) to see if they would play along .. and they did. They played along so well that they even came over to my place and we all had sex (without a girl involved). I even went as far as to have a female friend call me on my phone while they were over (after we had been drinking and watching straight porn) and say she wouldn't be able to make it.

They clearly enjoyed it and I do not think they would have gone as far as they did if they didn't really want to. They even sent me txts the next day saying they how surprised they were comfortable with doing stuff with just another guy. I was their first gay experience and they, as bestfriends, had never even seen eachother naked up until that point. Does that make me a bad person for lying to them to get what I want? Again, this was all in good fun with no intentions of it actually happening ... but then it did.

**zerosevendeuce** · 07-20-2009, 10:43 PM

Seems to me you all got what you wanted, it just might have been better with a girl there, well at least for them anyway.

And so you didn't tell the whole truth, that goes on all the time.
It may not be noble but that's how the game is played unfortunately.
So maybe you can find some lucky girl to join you next time.

Good luck

**â˜†-saz-star27-â˜†** · 07-20-2009, 10:43 PM

The way I see it, You didn't force them to do anything. Ok they thought a girl would be involved..As soon as they found out a girl wouldn't they could of either:
1. Let you know nothing sexual was going to happen.
2. Left and gone home.
But they didn't. They stayed and obviously wanted to participate and enjoyed it.

So no. I don't think it makes you a bad person.

=)

**Blue Boxer Shorts** · 07-20-2009, 10:44 PM

i admire you lol.
no ypu didnt force them. they were horny and had sex. thats what happens

**Ice Dragon** · 07-20-2009, 10:47 PM

what happened to their own girl friends? sound to me that they were being the same as you and using the whole girl friend thing as a cover up, like you .