Been married for 12 years
One child
Both of us nearing 40
No infidelity in marriage
Spouse does not drink, smoke, gamble, cheat, etc.
Spouse is very loving and good to me and child
Found out spouse owes $100,000 to IRS..
Spouse owes $100,000 to family for failed business (did not know this much money was owed either)
We own nothing but furniture and clothing; we have no assets
We live next door to parents in a house owned by parents
I quit a $35,000/year job with good benefits to stay at home with our child.
Spouse has job hopped numerous times and we moved 7 times.
Spouse don't really have a job now; I started work to support us.
Before we married, spouse promised to take care of me and our child; I feel betrayed by this financial situation, when I trusted my spouse to take care and provide for me. I do not want to be in this situation, but we do have a small child together. I do not know what to do. I do not feel that this is right for me. This is not at all how I thought our married life would be. Spouse has promised to do better and try to right this situation, but I do not see how.
Any suggestions????
I had no idea we were in this situation. I love my spouse, but I see no way out of this financial situation, and it feel is not right for me.

Spouse has extreme bad credit (liens, reposessions, etc.)
Cant open any credit for a car, home etc..Cant even open a bank account!