"That's so gay!"

[Callie D]

Oh... I see this thread hasn't died out yet...

[colinh90]

pfffttt.... have you never watched lesbian porn? It's the greatest thing since 3-cheese-ranch dressing!

[morph]

if men find lesbians hot, do women find gays hot?

[The Real Britney]

i see your point there but once you have a girlfriend and you have sex on a regular basis, well at least until your married, you really dont need to watch as much porn or watch it at all

[Summer Rain]

Um...yea sorry but i use the phrase "thats so gay" all the time. At my school, even the gay people say it and i have nothin against teh homos... personally i don't think its that offensive but then, maybe thats because im not gay.

[bonjovifan]

I used to use that phrase a little often in high school. Well, more specifically, junior year. And there was a girl in the class who always pitched a fit about it. But, since I hated her from the day I even met her 3 years earlier (and still do today) I paid no mind to it, and looked at the offensive edge as a plus.
Anyway, I don't use it anymore. Not because I disagree with its use. But because it's OVERused in general. I'm usually more along the lines of saying "That's fucked" or something similar. People who do get offended by it don't have an extremely good reason to. Plenty of words have multiple meaning, and the first meanings to the word "gay" DIDN'T involve homosexuals. So technically, they stole it. And the rainbows too. =(
Poor Lucky and his charms. *sigh* I have no problem WITH "gay" people. However, as mentioned earlier by someone else, there's a different between being gay and being a complete and utter flamer. Or, as Dane Cook put it, "Esses". And FYI: The whole "pansy" thing is not directly used to describe the STRENGTH aspect of a person, but moreso the impression given by their general PRESENCE. So it doesn't mean that flowers aren't strong, but uh.. I doubt the first thing on the Hulk's list of goals is to be reincarnated as a... carnation.

[Beyond Bleach]

I have gay friends who use the phrase "Thats so gay," and if a homosexual person is calling it gay, doesn't that make it even worse?