A man who meets a girl for 8 months going out and spend 1-2 days a week outside. But she does not allow sex, which makes him frustrated after being together sometimes 5 - 6 hours. She is a single mum and in 40s and despite hiding enjoys being hugged and kissed.

Is there any thing wrong with her or is she performing tacticly. If he wants to once and all asks her seriously what should he say or should he just forget her and look for other opportunities. What would be the wise thing to say or do.