my boyfriend said we should try to not have sex for 3 weeks. I was like "whaaaat". He said he just said/did that because he wants me to relax and adjust to the fact that soon we won't be hanging out/having sex as much because he starts fire school and will be super busy. he is also going out of town for a week then i go out of town for 5 days so that explains part of it. Obviously, who knows if we will actually even make it that long.
I'm just concerned because he's a guy..he should want sex. what should I do? is this a sign that he's cheating? recently we've been going out to eat, going to dinner, and just staying out and talking. He said the other day we could've had sex if I mentioned wanting it earlier in the evening and even made a joke that he was going to tease me and see if I gave in. We had sex last week and he didnt seem as into it as he normally is but that couldve been because he was tired. We had sex for a little but after that i realized i forgot to take my pill and he suggested we have sex the next time we hang out or in a couple days. I mean hes a 21 yr old boy even if he was cheating would he really want to go three weeks without sex? his sex drive should be much higher than that
then again doesnt some of the things he says show he still has interest in sex?
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