My girlfriend doesn't cook or clean?

09-08-2009, 01:35 PM

My girlfriend doesn't cook or clean since she grew up having all the chores done by others.
I'm thinking of getting married to her but i don't think she can keep up house.
Should i keep her or dump her?
where are the men?please help me here..im losing
where are the men?please help me here..im losing
ok we solved the problem...she doesn't wanna marry me

**Mya** · 09-08-2009, 01:35 PM

ok sweetie.

girlfriends are not supposed to help out with housework.

However wives are. I believe women should do their part as well as a man. Tell her you want to take the next step together. And together means cooking, cleaning, sex, meeting people.

forget what the other girls say. try this.

"sweetie can you help me with the dishes and i will make dinner tonight." slowly but surely she should come around

**Skye M** · 09-08-2009, 01:35 PM

If you love her MARRY her teach her about cooking and cleaning it will be a good thing to bring the two of you together.

**Ryz** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

If a woman is unable to cook or clean, she is of a lesser breed of females and should be discarded immediately before procreation can occur.

**m.i.s.s.** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Well....she's not your mommy

**sweetwickedgrl** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Talk to her about how you can equally divide the cooking and cleaning duties. If she refuses to share in taking care of a home with you, and neither of you make enough money to eat out every night or hire a maid, then you'll have to consider how you can have an equal partnership in your marriage.

**happy_in_love** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Where is she living at now? Cooking and cleaning should be a shared task. Both my fiance and I love to cook and keep a clean house. We take turns doing laundry or we do it together.

I think it is pretty shallow that would consider dumping her if she can't clean a house. If you aren't willing to do any cooking or cleaning yourself then hire a maid.

09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

No, it's not a deal breaker, but she needs to make an effort to learn

**Liz** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Teach her.

she hasn't had to do all those things because she didnt have to and i'm sure you are capable of doing so too, so help her out, if you really love her, you wouldn't have thought about the option to dump her, but you should encourage her to be helpful and you can also go along with the house keeping yourself.

**Joe K** · 09-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Tell her one of your buddies needs to clean his apt. or room. Say that he is willing to pay her. If she refused, get rid of her. LOL If she does it, see how well she does.