my girlfriend of 18months is always chatting up guys online?

[BILL h]

I have discovered several IM conversations btw her and other guys which were disturbing. i confronted her about this. she claims not to have cheated on me and gets defensive anytime we have this conversation. so far she claims to have visited (at their houses) a couple of guys she met online just to "talk". She puts up online ads, she claims she enjoys the attention.

Since she promised to change, I was very understanding at first but not its just frustrating since it keeps happening over and over again.

Anyone have ideas on how I can handle this? I do love her.

[Greg]

dump your attention whore or tell her that the next time she does it you will because if she is going over to peoples houses that is not right. Even if her intentions are innocent, guys don't know that and could pressure her--no guy wants some chick he met online to come over and "talk"