Help on how to not have sex?

**Angela K** · 02-12-2010, 08:52 PM

So I'm 16 and I decided I don't want to have sex. My boyfriend's not too thrilled but he respects my decision. But, when we make out, things tend to get heavy, REALLY heavy. Is there a way I can prevent this? How can make him like what I'm doing without turning his on? Does that make sense? Lol

**Alec** · 02-12-2010, 08:52 PM

it doesnt make sense, foreplay is a precursor to sex. if you dont want to have sex, dont make out

**Mike** · 02-12-2010, 08:53 PM

Go to Josef Fritzl's basement, guaranteed that you won't have sex <3

02-12-2010, 08:53 PM

There isn't a way.

Most women see kissing as kissing.

Most men see kissing as a step towards sex.

There's not much you can do to keep him from wanting to have sex with you if you two are making out all the time.

**Waterdragon** · 02-12-2010, 08:53 PM

sorry everything a teenage guy does with a teenage girl turns him on --- its not possible to do "things" and not get turned on --- all you need to do is keep saying no ---- yes it can be difficult but i did it and i have very little self control

**SKULL** · 02-12-2010, 08:53 PM

hahaha yeah i had that same issue
just try to hang out in public more often and keep the kissing lighter
i would be careful though... it's very easy to lose your virginity expecially when youre getting passionate

**SKULL** · 02-12-2010, 08:53 PM

hahaha yeah i had that same issue
just try to hang out in public more often and keep the kissing lighter
i would be careful though... it's very easy to lose your virginity expecially when youre getting passionate